The Zone of Proximal Development: The Sweet Spot for Learning
In educational psychology, the Zone of Proximal Development (ZPD), introduced by Lev Vygotsky, refers to the space between what a learner can do independently and what they can do with just a bit of support. This “just right” zone is where growth happens — not too hard, not too easy.
Think of Goldilocks and the Three Bears. One porridge is too hot, one too cold — one is just right
Learning works the same way.
If something is too hard, it’s frustrating.
Too easy, and it’s boring.
But just right? That’s where learning sticks.
In this zone, students make manageable mistakes, stretch their skills, and build confidence. It’s where challenge meets success — and that’s where we want to teach.

A Parallel: ZPD and Ki Karov Elecha
When I teach, I often think about the Zone of Proximal Development. And when I reflect on growth in avodas Hashem, I always come back to one pasuk:
כִּֽי־קָרוֹב אֵלֶיךָ הַדָּבָר מְאֹד—בְּפִיךָ וּבִלְבָבְךָ לַעֲשֹׂתוֹ
“For the matter is very close to you — in your mouth and in your heart, to do it.”
(Devarim 30:14)
This verse is one of the Twelve Pesukim that the Lubavitcher Rebbe selected for every child to know by heart. It captures a central truth of Torah education: a meaningful life of mitzvos and learning is not far away — it’s within reach.
Ki Karov in Torah: The Power of What’s Near
In Tanya (Chapter 17), the Alter Rebbe explains that Ki Karov Elecha is not just encouragement — it’s reality. A Jew already carries the capacity to connect with Hashem through Torah and mitzvos. We don’t have to become someone else. We just need to reveal what’s already inside.
The neshama is wired for this.
“Karov eilecha” — it’s in your mouth, your heart, and your soul.
It’s close. Possible. Yours.
Ki Karov in Literacy: One Step at a Time
This is the heart of how we teach Kriah. We don’t expect a child to read from Tehillim right away. If they’re learning Kamatz words, that’s their step. That’s what’s karov. And when we teach within that zone, children feel success — and grow from it. That’s meaningful. That’s their mitzvah now.
The same applies to mitzvos. A child might dream of giving millions to tzedakah — but today, they can give one coin.
We build literacy and character step by step.
Letter by letter. Word by word.
Act by act. Mitzvah by mitzvah.

Motivation and Growth: Dream Big, Act Small
Dreams are important. Children can dream of becoming astronauts, doctors, or Torah scholars. But those dreams grow from what they do today — helping a friend, reading one more word, giving one more coin.
We teach children to tinker with what’s around them — the tools, relationships, and ideas already within reach. We empower them to act where they are, so that each step forward feels natural and real.
Growth happens through action.
Small steps build big futures.
For Educators Too: The Step in Front of Us
Ki Karov Elecha isn’t just for children. It’s for us, too.
As educators, we envision vibrant classrooms, inspiring lessons, and thriving schools. Those dreams matter — but they must inspire us, not overwhelm us.
We grow by doing the next right thing:
- Refining one practice.
- Reaching one student.
- Building one moment of connection.
Excellence isn’t built in leaps.
It’s built in steps.
One close, reachable step at a time.